Tomorrow
is our 42nd wedding anniversary but today is forecasted to have
better weather so we decide to take our celebratory day out today. We head for
the coast planning to have what may be our last dip of the year in the sea.
We have lunch at a garden centre on the way, sitting on a spacious terrace in the dappled shade of an olive tree with Ellie at our feet. Unfortunately I've left my camera in the car and I can't be bothered to put my mask on and go back all the way round the one-way system to get it.
The path starts at the back of a village's churchyard, . . .
The path starts at the back of a village's churchyard, . . .
.
. . crosses a small stream via a wooden footbridge . . .
and
then climbs through a wood.
We
pass a clump of Knapweed in full sun. It’s covered with what I think are moths,
judging by the way they fly.
Why
so many? Is this their favourite nectar-plant? Is there a colony living nearby?
Or is it just that the knapweed is at its best? I know very little about
butterflies, and even less about moths.
Soon
we glimpse the sea.
We
head down to our favourite beach, accessible only on foot or by boat. Unfortunately there’s
been a landslip and the path has been diverted and we take several wrong
turnings - which, as you may have realised by now is normal on our
walks. Luckily, today they’re the result of Frog’s choices so I don’t have to
feel guilty.
Ellie
starts to look unhappy and I wonder if she’s remembering our last visit with my
sister and niece three weeks earlier. Because of the diversion, the final climb
down to the beach has to be made on a precarious ladder 20 or so feet long.
Then, even though she was shaking, Frog was able to pick her up under his arm and
carry her down, but today she struggles frantically and (by mistake) makes bloody gashes
all the way up his forearm with her claws.
Somehow
though we all make it down. The beach is empty . . .
.
. . which is a good thing as Frog has forgotten his swimmers and has to go into
the water in his birthday suit.
The
water is divine. Calm, clear and surprisingly warm. I put my head under several
times, hoping to clear my slight migraine. I wonder if the migraine is the
result of the significant date which makes me even more aware than usual of my inadequacies (of
which more in another post, perhaps).
We
bask in the sun, while Ellie lies in our shade, panting and drinking copious
amounts of water. Last time we brought a sunshade for her but then we had an athletic 18-year-old with us who carried it. We decide it’s time to move.
Ellie is much happier getting back up the ladder, mostly under her own
steam with Frog helping.
Now
we’re more sure about the path, we have time to savour the walk through the
undercliff. I remember that early new potatoes used to be grown on terraces
here up until quite recently and I wonder how on earth they managed to clear some space.
As
well as wildflowers there are berries everywhere, including these which I think
(and later confirm) belong to the Common or Purging Buckthorn.
In
spite of its name, it’s apparently much less common than the Alder Buckthorn, which has red or purple berries and I think I may have growing in the garden from time to time but have yet to
confirm, and strongly laxative as you might expect. According to Richard Mabey
in his Flora Britannica: ‘when the
latrine pits of the Benedictine Abbey at St Albans were excavated in the 1920s,
great numbers of [Purging] buckthorn seeds were found mixed up with the
fragments of cloth the monks used as lavatory paper.’
It
grows on chalky soil and, as we’re on the East Devon coast where (as I’ve said before) the soil starts to change from sandy to chalky, that makes sense.
I’m
interested in the Buckthorns because at the start of the Lockdown I saw my first Brimstone butterfly, a gorgeous lemon-yellow fluttery
thing, and the Buckthorns are where the female lays her eggs. (What was I
saying earlier about each type of wild plant having its niche . . . ?)
As
we turn inland to walk back down to the village, I take my last look at the
seascape - it may not be as stunning as the Mediterranean, but I love the
soft blues and greys . . .
.
. . and at the village church . . .
.
. . which makes me think of that other church where Frog and I married all that
time ago, in that other village where we still live.
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Dear B - congratulations to you both - what a gorgeous photo outside the church - well done on 42 years! And thanks for sharing your amazing anniversary walk - so brave to go back knowing about the steep ladder and Ellie's apprehension. I think I know this walk and have scorched on this beach...but haven't been for years. Love the buckthorn and moth/butterflies stories. And Pah! to inadequacies - they are only real if we compare ourselves to other people - otherwise they are just part of our wonderful human makeup to be loved along with our best bits!You have lived and loved for 42 years with the same man and are still here to tell the tale - I think that is marvellous and so are you! Txx
ReplyDeleteOh, Trish, thank you. You're always so kind, it makes me tearful. One should remember the achievements as well as the (perceived) failures. Having said that, we do feel a bit bad about inflicting the ladder on Ellie but we didn't expect her to be quite so upset about it. Still, hopefully she enjoyed the rest of day and she's certainly always desperate to be included in every outing. I'm sure you do know the beach. Full details by email if required! So glad you like the 'nature notes'. It's always difficult to know what people will find interesting and what will bore them. :-) xx
ReplyDeleteCongratulations - time well spent with the man you married!
ReplyDeleteWe all make choices which, we then look back, wonder if we could have 'done better' but I firmly believe if you HAD chosen differently - how do you know if you would have done any better/differently? No - there is beauty and uplifting moments in all choices, you just have to 'choose' to see them xxxxx
Lovely to hear from you Kate and as you've obviously guessed it's a long story. And you're so right - you do your best at the time and you just have to let go. Thank you. xxx
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